Spanking Reference Pages
This section of the web site concentrates on the very real issues that spankers and potential spankees all face. You may want to find someone to put across your knee for a spanking, or perhaps you are hoping to find a safe and sane lap to place yourself over, or having found the opportunity are wondering what to do next. Based on accumulated knowledge and experience, we hope you may find these pages interesting and perhaps even useful.
We NEVER claim that the advice given here is the only right way to do things, it is simply our personal take on the issues that we have faced ourselves, and how we have overcome them.
Spanking Guides Index
- Real Life Experiences Section -
these pages have been written by guest authors. They describe a variety of
typical experiences that may well be relevant to other people in a similar
position, or you may just enjoy reading them.
- Spanking Implements Section - in here you will find pages dedicated to, the Cane, the Birch and the Tawse.
- Spanking How To's - no, not
definitive, officially authorised manuals, just our own experience and
techniques written out in the hope that some of you find them useful.
Included are a page on spanking your playmate, and another dedicated to
spanking yourself.
- Self Spanking How To's - following on from the help on spanking, this page aims to help those who must or prefer to apply the spanking sting to their own bums.
- Roleplay - hints and
ideas for loosing your inhibitions, and maybe becoming someone else for the
duration...
- All in the Mind - Fitting somewhere between Roleplaying, and trying real life bare bottomed spanking for the first time, there is 'another way'. Your partner is willing to "give spanking a try", but is unsure whether the 'pain' will be too much?
- Adult Schoolgirls -
linking into the roleplay theme, this page delves into the erotic and
ethical facets of this favourite of adult spanking fetishes.
- Erotic Humiliation
- a few notes towards an understanding of Erotic Humiliation, written by severine.
The author hopes to provoke readers into responding with their own thoughts
and experiences.
- Personal Advert Advice - no, not
the real thing (they can be found on the Forum), but a string of
examples of how it should be done, and some real horrors that will never
work!
- Spanking Safety - this page discusses
the potential problems that can arise if you are disciplined
over-enthusiastically.
- Tails of the Unexpected - This page is meant to function as a "heads up" to some of the things that could go wrong during and following a spanking.
- Meetings and Safety
- the end result of many visitors web-search is a meeting with an 'equal and
opposite'. Here I hope to encourage safe thinking and a little
caution.
