My Spanking History
As a 'mature' gent I have understood that spanking turned me on since my teens, and that there was something fascinating about bottoms even earlier, but it was many years before I was rewarded with the privilege of actually spanking a bare, smooth, pink, willing, soft female bottom.
My earliest spanking recollection was back in junior school when I was around 6 years old. You have to remember that this was at a time when corporal punishment was still in use in schools, but the do-gooders opinion was steadily gaining ground. I don't remember all of the circumstances surrounding the incident, but a girl was called to the front by the female teacher for wetting her knickers in class. The teacher was obviously intent on making an example of this poor girl by embarrassing her in front of the class. After cleaning up and supplying the girl with spare knickers, she was tipped across the teachers knees, her grey school skirt flipped up over her back, and then about 10 - 20 smacks delivered across her grey knickered bottom right there in front of us. That image still haunts me to this day.
I am fortunate that I had quite easy access to a wide variety of adult magazines, and the occasional spanking related content reassured me that my little quirk was quite common. Later, I became an avid reader of spanking specific magazines such as Janus, Kane, Blushes and Fessee. In spite of this I still had difficulty accepting that a female could actually enjoy being punished, I simply believed that they were brave enough to put up with the treatment for the sake of their guys.
Finally, during my thirties, I was helping a male friend move out of his house following his marriage break-up. I had always found my friend's wife very pleasant and physically attractive and I had to resist any desire for her. As we ferried boxes out to my car, I arrived back in the room to find his ex-wife bending deeply over a box to pack in more stuff, her jeans stretched tightly across a quite magnificent rump. With no thought for the consequences, I landed a good meaty swat right across both cheeks. My hand stung, so she must have felt it good! I don't know what reaction I expected, but I certainly didn't bank on what she did. Both hands flew around to rub her stinging bum, as she rose slowly. She turned, still rubbing slowly - sensuously actually - and gave me such an odd look, pouting sexily. Instead of the expected reprimand or exclamation, she came out with "ooooooh! Have I been THAT naughty?" Things progressed apace, and very soon I w as meeting her regularly to apply the strict spankings and strappings she had craved since her Dad stopped applying them when she left home. I will never forget that young lady, she taught me so much about how a girl feels before, during and after she has her bottom smacked.
Since then I have known a number of women who would at least put up with a mild spanking after I coached them in the delights of a play-spanking. I have also been lucky enough to be unofficial mentor to a teenager who was a lovely girl, but struggling with her exams. After some discussion, during which I explained that I had a proven method for these situations, it was agreed that I would spank her for bad results. She did ask why I was taking such an interest, and why use this particular method. I was scrupulously honest, explaining that the situation turned me on, but reassuring her that I would never take things any further. I am sure that this knowledge actually made the situation more acceptable to her, to the point that I am sure the young minx wriggled across my lap more than was strictly necessary. She was never going to be a brain surgeon, but she did achieve the exam results she required to become a sports attendant. Whether my "mentoring" did the trick is open to debate, what counts is that she felt cared for (something that was sadly lacking in her life), and I got to lovingly spank a firm fleshed young lady.
Since I got involved with the Internet, I have been able to meet a number of young ladies, specifically in order to apply a spanking where it does most good. A couple of these girls have been new to the 'scene' as such and were still discovering themselves. It has been these acquaintances who have demonstrated that I have a gift for helping spanking novices experiment with the newly discovered, or long suppressed, submissive side to their natures. It is with this empathy that many of the advice pages have been written, either by me, or by others who share my views.
For myself, I am a long-term 'married to vanilla' guy, and I have every intention of remaining that way. The situation is not ideal but we all have to play the cards we have been dealt and make the best of life. This is just the way it turned out. If you are seeking a full-time spanking partner then I cannot help, other than to point out our facility for placing personal ads and getting to know people on our spanking forum. However, if you simply desire a no strings spanked bottom, then I may be able to help. I find the spanking party/munch scene to be very impersonal, cliquey and remote, instead I much prefer the intimacy of a warm candlelit room, a glass of wine and a rosy bottom.
Having met several playmates through the Internet, it proves that it really is possible to find one's preferred partner out there. Many people, especially the fellas, fail dismally to find a partner (bizarrely through lack of sufficient effort!) but it is perfectly feasible to find someone suitable, it just needs a proper approach. If you are still looking, why not pay a visit to the Personals Page, where there are numerous tips on placing ads etc.
