OK then, so having dished out personal ad advice to hundreds of people over the years, and written pages of advice on how to write a good ad, writing one for myself is going to be a cinch, right? Wrong. This will be the fourth attempt, and I expect I will still hate it when I read it back. My ex-playmate suggested this version may be better:
About Saxon:
I’m just an ordinary middle-aged guy, with a slightly extraordinary fetish. Nothing to get too worked up about, and given the increasing media attention that spanking is getting these days, hardly worth mentioning!
I an inch or two shy of 6ft tall, and my build is fairly average too, being the physique of a mature guy who likes to stay fit but also enjoys the good things in life. I don’t think I have ever been regarded as a ‘hunk’, except maybe by those special people who have known me, but neither have I sent anyone running for the hills. I try to dress reasonably smartly and aim for the 'clean cut' look. ‘Distinguished’ is a word I like.
The playmate I seek will probably have a happy, successful and possibly partnered life of her own, with just a smacked bottom missing from it, and that would blend with my wish to play an unobtrusive and discrete part in fulfilling that desire. My own circumstances are a little complicated and not open for the world to observe, but I am completely honest with potential playmates.
My playmate may well be significantly younger than I, and would not have to work too hard at being my ‘naughty daughter/niece/pupil/trainee/etc’. If asked, I would request ‘youthful’, ‘slim’ and ‘attractive’, but what guy wouldn’t? This is more about a meeting of minds and desires than pure physical attraction, and so the ‘right’ woman will have that indefinable something that makes her attractive to me, regardless of her physical attributes. Have you got it? Who knows, but you may well be surprised.
I enjoy the delicious sensation of a female form draped expectantly across my knee, of my open palm spanking firmly into soft yielding female buttocks, repeatedly. I enjoy feeling her react as those spanks sting her cheeks, feeling her relax and strain backwards for more as she absorbs the burn, and hearing her sigh contentedly as my palm caresses the sting away, before applying more. But so much more than the physical, I relish the opportunity to dominate her thoughts, overcome her coquetish resistance, and take her to the place that exists in her fantasies.
I have been ‘comfortable in my skin’ for many years now, and have been privileged to play a part wth several people who were still discovering themselves. Those early experiences of gradual realisation, wonderment, and eventual fulfillment are very special, and to be able to help and guide a person through them is an honour. I have ‘played’ with a couple of people on an occasional basis, but generally I prefer to really get to know a playmate, and remain with them until such time as life moves us along.
If you have got this far and I have tweaked your interest, you will surely be wondering where in the world to find me. The United Kingdom. My precise location may alter as I migrate around the North of England as work dictates, but reasonable travelling distance of Yorkshire is my current domain.
What should you do about it?
Contacting me is not quite the same as signing your life away, it simply means that you would like to talk about things. No commitments, just an expression of interest. Once we are in contact, we can chat about our likes and dislikes and see if we get on. In due course we may want to take things further, or you are free to simply walk away with no harm done.
I can be contacted at: saxon044@yahoo.com
