Spanking Survey Comments

The Things They Said

The following are an anonymous selection of some of the more interesting comments that have been sent in on survey forms. Can you find your kindred spirit?
  • Not so keen on wearing any uniform other than light PE clothes as worn at school. Prefer the caning to be very severe but would like to try gym rope. Not so keen on whips but I have considered trying a real judicial birch for a change. I have disciplined females, and have no objections to them wearing whatever they prefer but it must be within reason and realistic of the social historical event.
  • I enjoy spanking, but I like the added humiliations associated with spanking even more. Corner-time, dunce cap, forced nudity or embarrassing outfits, wearing a sign stating your offence, mouth soaping. I also enjoy the humiliation of being made to wear a brown paper bag over my head as part of a punishment session.
  • I like all forms of spanking play. I do love to be placed over the knee and experience the feeling of vulnerability as my skirt is raised and panties rolled down to my stocking tops, preparing me for a sound spanking with hand and slipper. I also enjoy preparing my girlfriends, and those boys who like to be girls, as they are over my knee waiting for that delicious warm-up before the real stinging, hot spanking begins. I like to play as secretary or maid, and as employer or mistress. To have my 'employer' find faults with my work, progressive punishments to correct me MMMMMMMMMM wonderful. I dislike rush and uncouth behaviour from anyone, crude preparation and plain hard spanking turn me off, there must be the thrill, the anticipation, the caressing of hot, stinging cheeks, the build up to harder and more challenging pain.
  • My favourite scenes are school scenes involving otk bare bottom spankings with hand and hairbrush. But I do enjoy domestic spankings with father/mother dishing out otk bare ass spankings.
  • Love to spank in a secluded wooded area with the hot sun beating down and the spankee tied between two trees.
  • I love the slipper, especially ladies flat slip-ons (mules) in soft leather (but the sole much have a snap). During the summer, I nurture fantasies about leather flip-flops (thongs)... As a child I used to get slippered by my Dad with the classical Italian black leather slipper and would like to replay the experience. When I grew up, as a teen, I got the belt from my Dad while my mother used a riding crop to discipline me until I left home to go to University.
  • My favourite scene is to be spread eagled naked and restrained between 2 trees in the woods. My beautiful Mistress will then proceed to paint a masterpiece of erotic colours and ridges upon my tender bare bottom, using the cane, paddle, strap, switch, hair brush and whip, in any order she so desires and any severity, to create Her Masterpiece upon the Canvas which is my bare bottom. I find this very exciting to accept and the after effect lasts for several days. It is a tremendous stress release for me as well as a sexual stimulus at the very thought.
  • I love getting spanked!!! My favourite is Otk with hand, paddle, tawse & small cane. Mmmmm. Plus the cane laying flat on bed or over pillows! The harder I'm spanked/caned the wetter I get, lol! I am too shy to do role play R/L...But I am brat enough to be my self! I also love going to fetish clubs & spanking parties! My Dom is one of my best friends.... we are very close! Though both married! It is important for me to know my Dom very well & have a lot of trust with him....
  • I love to be spanked, to have someone I trust take off my clothes, give me a firm lecture and spank at my bottom forever. I love the hand, paddle, or even plastic hanger works real well for me.
  • My particular favourite is just a plain spanking, no frills. My mother spanked me as a child [till I was 10] however an argument with an Aunt years later led to me having to submit to bend over her knees and be spanked even though I was 20. This was over 20 years ago but this was the spanking that I remember most over her knees and she tightened my trousers and gave me a real good spanking and the humiliation of having to stand there as she lectured me like 4 year old as I sobbed was too much. Awesome!
  • The most important thing for me is that He move very slowly. Slow gestures, long involved disrobing of my bottom, very long slow warm up. If I can reach a point where I'm almost begging for it harder/faster then I can take a lot of punishment for a much longer time than otherwise. I have earned and understand the need for real punishment spankings. And they hurt like HELL! Favourite: daddy/daughter hand or hairbrush OTK.
  • I was regularly spanked as a child and adolescent by my mother and other female relatives. I became addicted to the idea of spanking when as a six year old boy, I saw my aunt give my cousin a bare behind spanking with her hand. As a result, I had my first remembered erection. At the time, I did not realize the sexual nature of my reaction, but thereafter every time either I, a sibling, relative or friend was to be spanked I had an inevitable erection. From about age nine till 15, the cousin whom I saw spanked and I played spanking each other as if we were school kids on our bare behinds. My present interest is fantasy only.
  • I particularly enjoy re-enacting the work environment, whereby the recipient has tried to get away with a misdemeanour and I am the one with the authority to punish her. In addition I find bratty behaviour a high turn-on and relish the chastisement of the misbehaving sub. I also thoroughly enjoy the erotic sensual side of roleplay where the discipline is fully consensual and actively sought by both parties, i.e. after some heavy flirting, etc.
  • This is a fabulous site. Not only is it free but it's British too and makes me realise that I'm not alone out there with my "kink". My favourite scenes involve me and a father figure. He is strict and firm and punishes me when I need it for my own good. I like otk, bare bottom, hand spankings. I've never really tried anything else but am sure a cane is erotic when used carefully.
  • I go to his house on weekends when I am free. Whilst I am there I do whatever he tells me and take whatever spanking he chooses to give. We do not act out scenarios or dress up as schoolgirl/teacher, secretary/boss etc. I go there for a good spanking and get exactly that. There is no need to pretend to have committed some offence for which I must be punished. I like being told what to do and doing it without question. I enjoy being stripped naked in front of him and knowing he likes what he sees. I get a thrill from being exposed and vulnerable when I bend over, and I get great satisfaction from being able to take the pain without complaint.
  • In my favourite scene I am spanked by a strong woman with a leather strap, while I am wearing only a pair of brief white nylon panties, until I am sobbing and repentant. The strapping should be long and hard. The panties should be pulled down for part of the spanking and then they should be pulled up again for more spanking. Then I should be made to "stand in the corner" for a specified period - perhaps one hour - while wearing just the panties. Following the corner time I would be allowed to put on a tee shirt not quite long enough to cover the panties and those would be the only clothes allowed, no matter who came around, (and I couldn't hide), until the next morning when I arose. I would then still have to wear the panties under my other clothes. The strong woman would be my authority figure - my "boss". I should be spanked a couple of times a week depending on my behaviour.
  • My girlfriend gets her bare ass spanked as a part of our love making. Her favourite is a home made martinet it makes soft red welts that fade into an over all glow.
  • Always wanted OTK bare bottom a real good old fashioned spanking and corner time with it. Have someone take charge and give me a spanking I wouldn't forget ouchhhhhh. Would love that, I need it big time!!
  • I grew up in a strict Irish farming family of 5 children, of which I was the oldest. Both my parents spanked us (though I really only remember myself and my brother being spanked). My Mother used her hand and the wooden spoon, my Dad used a switch, a belt and sometimes a hurl (like a flat-sided hockey stick). He last spanked me (switch) when I was about 15/16. We were never spanked OTK, it was usually in the kitchen with other family members around. I started fantasising about spanking when I was about 13/14, it was one fantasy and was particularly ritualistic (men in robes, a paddling machine) but I put those fantasies aside for years and have only recently re-discovered. I've decided to explore, life is for living after all! I've very limited adult experience but the idea of domestic discipline is very appealing. I'm a strong, tough, independent woman and it is very hard to find someone who can match that, especially in a country like Ireland. I've just discovered this site tonight and I'm thrilled! Thank you.
  • Being caught, speeding, going clubbing, gambling, or put in jail. Dislike facing my boyfriend, when confronted, who has forbidden me to go to all these places and get into trouble. Hate the lectures, and facing the ultimate punishment a good sound spanking for disobedience.
  • Like to "play" with an older man, seems more authentic that way! Have played as "school girl" and "naughty niece". Have a current partner, who, although fits the age criteria is, I'm afraid, married!
  • I like a good long (15 minutes minimum, no maximum time) bare hand on bare bottom spanking. I must be able to successfully ask to have the spanking stop, so I don't risk serious injury. If I have that safety, I can enjoy a pretty hard spanking lasting hours at a time. My pleasure in the spanking is only present if it is a spanking by a female, age 19-40 roughly, and only if I think she's a hot looker.
  • My preference is to be tied to bedposts with my hips elevated by pillows and then told what my punishment will be after I get a number of warm-up strokes. My last was 24 strokes with a strap that has a metal strip inside the leather and packs quite a wallop when applied full strength. My punisher always gives an equal amount from each side and spaces them about 20 seconds apart. Once I'd gotten the 24 I was given 12 with a 3 tailed tawse. It stings a lot more than the strap and seems to cause swelling more readily. Lastly I got 6 strokes of the cane, 5 then she barred the gate. Suffice to say I was properly punished and had a very red ass for a few hours and the bruises took 3 or 4 days to go.
  • I found had the courage to confess my adult life long desire to be spanked when finally had a lover who was in love with me. Now I'm hand spanked regularly. I'm occasionally spanked with a wooden paddle about 25% larger than a ping pong paddle. We've talked about a riding crop but he hasn't brought one yet. I love the physical sensations of a spanking. But I wish he would spank me longer and hard. I think he's hesitant about hurting me and causing me pain. I also love his acceptance of my sexual submissiveness. But I wish he would be more dominate and masterful. I using positive reinforcement to bring out his dominance. We're also discussing role playing. I've written some fantasies on file cards and given them to him for when ever he feels he wants to act them out.
  • It is not a scene for me. My husband is a very strict man and when I am out of line I get a spanking. It is not a life style but a reality. He has put me over his knee in front of his friends, our family and in private. He makes no attempt to hide the fact that I will get a spanking if I act up or if I do something wrong. This has been since we were engaged. He let me know how he felt and told me I could accept it or we could separate with no hard feelings. I choose to accept it. I remember once we were having dinner with our best friends and he went in the kitchen and happen to look through the mail. Our bank statement was in it and he opened it. He then realized that I had bounced three checks that month due to careless bookkeeping. He came back in to where we were having coffee after dinner. He joined in the conversation and then asked me if I needed any extra money for the week. I jumped on the chance to get the extra money to get the bank account back in order. He then asked me what I planned on doing with the money. I told him I was going to put a little extra to pay down some bills. He then asked if I was also going to use it for the overdrawn fees at the bank. My girlfriend stifled a little laugh not knowing I was about to get in big trouble. His friend shifted in his chair excitedly anticipating I was. He then lectured me about properly keeping our financial records and then told me to go get the wooden spoon. I returned and he had pulled one of our living room chairs in the middle of the room and told me to stand behind it. Then he told me to lower my pants and bend over the chair. I did so and he left the room. He came back in with the bank statement and asked me to add up the amount the bank charged us for the three checks I bounced. I looked and told him it was $25 dollars per check, so $75. He said I would receive the following 25 swats with his hand, 25 with the spoon and then 25 with his belt. I remember tearing up right away knowing what I was about to go through. And it was worse because our friends were about to watch me be spanked like a little girl by my husband. He stepped behind me and then pulled down my panties. I wanted to die. He has spanked me in front of people before but never bare. Now not only could me friends see me get spanked but they could see my privates. They both changed seats to get a better view. And once they were settled in on the love seat my husband began spanking me. There was no warm up, it was hard from the first hand spank to the last stroke of the belt. I cried from about the 7th hand spank until the end. I have never bounced a check again!
  • My husband and I have embarked on an "Obedient Wife Training Program". We have agreed on some rules. When I disobey, I get spanked. We have many "pleasure spankings" which I really enjoy. Discipline spankings for disobeying for instance the 5 Minute Rule, are severe, but still enjoyable. The interesting thing is, the more obedient I become, the happier I am.
  • My wife always loved to have her ass massaged. A few months ago she became more docile after a very light slap on her ass. She admitted that it did excite her so now a light spanking is a regular routine. She is able to have an orgasm and at times I do also.
  • A scene I want to try is being abducted, stripped of my clothes, tied up, blindfolded, spreader bar used on my legs and I am getting the spanking of a lifetime on my ass and the inside of my thighs. :) Another one is being, stripped of my clothes, tied up, blindfolded, my hair being pulled while I am being spanked and sexually taken from behind. My favourite way of being spanked is with a bare hand as I find it so erotic and intimate, nothing compares with skin on skin contact.
  • I'm definitely a teacher/headmaster. To be honest my fantasies mainly involve a strict head-mistress punishing a girl in front of the school, or in her study. I'm fascinated by the whole ritual aspect: the scolding, acknowledgement, the command, the baring and the eventual acceptance back into the fold once the correction has been applied. I prefer the spanking depicted in Lady Jane to any commercial video.
  • i prefer the roleplay of an authentic school punishment. This requires school uniform and the use of the cane. I do not like the informality of any kind of sexual contact as this takes away from the authenticity. the backside and occasionally thighs may be caned quite hard. I prefer the girl to act genuinely scared and obedient.
  • I love the thoughts of domestic discipline. I have never been in such a relationship but would like to be. I don't want to be spanked just for the experience but by someone who cares about me and would spank me for not taking care of myself, not getting things done I need to, and obviously for trying to be in charge. I am a take charge kind of person and would like someone else to be in charge.
  • I don't like master/slave spankings unless in role play but I like loving, caring spankings that he takes his time with to build up ( unless in punishment, in which case it's his choice, lol). I don't mind heavier implements in spanking as long as he warms me up first. He prefers the paddle, hairbrush, cane and belt. I prefer feathers, leaves etc. lol
  • I guess I am a bit of a brat, and he was a total vanilla until I met him. I think he even enjoys it now lol. Especially when I've been a total brat for days and he can't do anything. You see we live with his parents, and when they're in he can't do anything. but when they go out...oooh. Also he spanks me every Friday lightly and without hurting me to much, just with his hand. I asked him to do this, because it stops me bratting to much and ending up with more punishment than I wanted, lol.
  • I like schoolgirl stories and brat stories lol I guess I prefer the kind of stories where spankings are taken for granted rather that come as a surprise. I don't really like stories with to much sex in them. I love just being put over my fianc├ęs knee, spanked lightly with his hand, put in the corner, then spanked with a hairbrush or something, but still lightly so the sting builds up and lasts for hours after the spanking has ended. I hate being punished properly *pouts* Loving your site, bye.
  • I like a woman dressed in tight white blouse short skirt, stockings suspenders, stood waiting to be spanked, when I am ready, I will tell them to remove there skirt and get over my knee. After 10-15 mins spanking over knickers, I will remove them, and continue to spank there bare arse. After I have finished they will be told to remove there blouse and stand in corner until I am ready to cane them, bent tight over the back of a chair for at least 12 strokes, to be followed by the tawse.
  • I don't like BDSM. I like spanking as a symbol. Symbol of my inner woman, which is a nice, good and modest, well dressed girl or wife with naughty and wicked bottom under her skirt, with naughty bottom that need to be punished. I like a woman and I prefer roleplay and scenes and dislike severe pain. I hate arrogant slavery humiliation.
  • I prefer to be a disobedient teenage daughter, a naughty schoolgirl or a secretary who has made a costly mistake. My favourite instruments are the strap, the tawse and the cane which should always be applied hard to my bare bottom by either a man or a woman. Best of all I like a really hard caning of six strokes which produces painful weals and marks which are still visible for two or three weeks.
  • Traffic ticket or overspending clothing budget. Calm lecture from him about how I should know better, this is not the first time this has happened. He carefully outlines, in detail, what the consequences of my actions will be. He places a straight back chair in the middle of the room and I'm told to sit and think about what will happen. He leaves the room. Back in a few minutes, tells me to stand up. He sits and slowly begins to roll up his sleeves, not looking at me, but continuing the lecture in a very even voice. When he's ready, he looks up at me and says, "Time for your spanking." I start to lean back, he takes my wrist and pulls me over his knee. Spanking starts over clothes, then to panties, then finally to bare. Despite pleading and promises to "Be Good", spanking continues until he is satisfied.
  • Favourite is master /slave I am a very bad slave not obedient love bondage, and dressing up. my favourite toy is the whip, I am not that keen on the cane , much prefer other toys love going to fetish clubs and would live in the dungeon. I would love to play more, and get to know more people who are the same. would like to talk to some others who feel the same and some people who are dominate to get ideas for games.
  • i like the feeling of being totally dominated... and feeling like a bad girl...little or big. My Dom spanks me whenever we meet. He keeps a journal of my 'errors' and we have a spanking session just to 'correct' me. We also roleplay school girl and Daddy's girl
  • i love being taken by force especially if my wife's friend comes round and they take by surprise, following a childhood accident I have a weak neck and can be manipulated very easily if one of them gets hold of it, then the handcuffs go on, then the trouble starts. it is a fun thing and I usually end up being used as a human sex toy, maybe if I'm lucky they will allow me to come too, but that pleasure costs! Enjoy the site immensely except on a normal modem it takes ages to load, browsing the galleries take ages due to the way the pictures have to reload every time.

 

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